You’re allowed to mourn what you’ve lost while looking forward to something better.
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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
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There might even be some moments when you feel happy and sad all at once.
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Youre wise enough to realize theeasiestthing to do isnt always therightthing to do.
Your interests and hobbies and friendship circles overlap.
Without them, your life is completely different.
Its going to take some time to readjust.
A lot more has changed than your relationship status.
Your entire world has shifted.
So dont rush yourself through healing.
It doesnt mean you made a mistake by staying with them for so long.
You might not belong in each others futures but that doesnt mean your past wasnt beautiful.
it’s possible for you to enjoy your fond memories while recognizing that youre not meant to make anymore.
All that matters is that youre doing the right thing for yourself.
Youre not living to impress anyone else.
Youre living for you.
Its simply the right thing to do.
Your relationship status has no correlation to your value as a person.Youre not falling behind now that youre single.
Youre not worse off than your married and engaged friends.
Youre supposed to be focused on your happiness, not on hitting random milestones society has assigned to you.
Anyone who looks down on you or pities you for being single has their priorities all wrong.
Love is beautiful, but its not the only thing that matters in life.
You might feel like your best days are behind you.
But thats far from the truth.
You are going to discover someone else who gives you butterflies.
You are going to findhappinessagain.
