He REALLY enjoys the time he doesnt spend with you.
Its healthy to have your own lives in your relationship.
Just because youre together doesnt mean you actually have to doeverything together.
Brandon Woelfel
You should be happy to be back together, you shouldwantto return home to them.
He becomes indifferent to basically everything.
He just doesnt care.
He doesnt care what restaurant you go to for date night.
He doesnt care whether or not you come with him to his parents house for dinner.
He doesnt notice the little things you do for him.
Brandon Woelfel
Mainly because hes unhappy.
His unhappiness is blinding him to the little things he used to appreciate in your relationship.
He used to love the little notes you left for him around his apartment.
He used to love all of these things, and now he barely even notices when you do them.
When you disagree he gives in easily.
He doesnt even put up a fight anymore.
He uses distractions as distance.
When he plays video games the ENTIRE night, he might be doing that to avoid talking to you.
When he uses distractions that make him noticeably distant, something is off.
You feel like hes not attracted to you anymore.
Even just the way they look at you’re free to make you feel attraction.
The nice things he does for you feel insincere.
Sincerity and authenticity is sometimes easier to pick up on when itsmissing.
When he tells you you look nice while looking at his phone, thats not sincerity.
When he tells you he loves you while pulling away, thats not sincerity either.
Trust your gut, if you feel like hes only being nice to appease you then he probably is.
