You don’t like the person you are when you’re with your partner.
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Updated 5 years ago,July 15, 2020
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You dont like the person you are when youre with your partner.Maybe youre overly jealous.
Omar Lopez
Maybe you are too competitive or bitter or resentful.
Whatever the case may be, the wrong person can bring out your most toxic traits.
Youve stopped making sense together.You might have been a perfect fit when you first met.
However, people change.
Their wants and desires and needs change.
Just because you fell in love with someone years ago doesnt mean you should stay with them today.
You shouldnt feel pressured to stay in your relationship because you have history.
It doesnt matter how much fun you had with them yesterday.
It matters how you feel about them today.
Youve had your eye on someone else lately.Some crushes are harmless.
Others are bound to become a problem.
The last thing you want to do is cheat on your partner.
You shouldnt sacrifice the things you consider necessary, simply because youve fallen in love.
You feel like youre their babysitter, not their partner.Your relationship shouldnt feel one-sided.
Your partner should be your equal, your teammate, your confidant.
They should be there for you in all the same ways youre there for them.
If you cant count on them, why are you with them?
Your futures look entirely different.It doesnt matter how much you love someone.
You dont want them to end up resenting you and you dont want to end up resenting them.
you oughta find someone who wants the same things you want.
Your dreams need to align.
Youve been thinking about leaving for a while.Every relationship has their ups and downs.
You dont want to walk away on a whim without thinking your plan through.
You shouldnt wait any longer.
