Here are seven signs youre in a situationship (and that it most likely wont become something more).
Its been two to three months but you arestillafraid to bring up defining the relationship.
In your mind, this is better than not having them in your life at all.
Katerina Holmes
You feel anxious about where you stand with them.
You have fun together but there isnt much emotional depth to the relationship.
Plans are almost always made at the last minute.
Theres no romance when you spend time together.
There is no planning of romantic outings or getaways.
They havent introduced you to their friends (even though theyve met yours).
They have made zero effort to integrate you into their social circle.
In fact, it seems the effort theyhavemade is keeping your thing separate from the rest of their life.
Speaking of the future…
6.
There are no discussions about the future.
Nothing about long-term plans outside of the relationship either.
This is a red flag that this is a situationship because even future plansoutsideof relationship specifics (i.e.
their next job, where they may want to live outside of your current city, etc.)
would affect you if you were still around when said future events occurred.
You dont use your dating apps but you also havent paused them just in case.
The just in case being this thing with Todd doesnt work out.
And, honestly, who knows; maybe theyve just been as scared as you.
Theres only one way to find out.
