You answer their messages – but you never send the first one.
You make out with them – but you’re never the one initiating the affection.
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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
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Andrik Langfield
You expect them to do all the work.You answer their messages but you never send the first one.
You make out with them but youre never the one initiating the affection.
You feel weird about giving them a key to your apartment, even though it was their idea.
Youre not really interested in moving in together or putting a label on the relationship, either.
Youre pretty secretive about them.You never post pictures of them on social media.
You never switch your relationship status totaken.
Theres nothing wrong with keeping your relationship private, but keeping your person a secret is another story.
You immediately change the subject.
Maybe youre scared of commitment.
Youre still actively flirting with other people.Maybe you swipe through dating apps whenever youre bored.
Or maybe you still talk to theexwho clearly wants to get back together with you.
Either way, youre keeping your options open.
Maybe youre not the romantic punch in or maybe you simply have no interest in wooing them.
Give them a chance to find someone who is more invested in their love.
