I wish I realized the phrase I’m not ready for a relationship right now is misleading.
It wasnt some cute, clever trick to get to win him over.
Sleeping with him didnt make him see me any differently.
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It didnt change his mind about whether or not he wanted to date me.
2.I wish I realized how much sleeping with him would screw with me, mentally.
Knowing he wanted to have sex with me but didnt want to date me lowered my self-worth.
It made me wonder whether the only good thing about me was my body.
It made me question whether there was something wrong with my personality.
3.I wish I realized sleeping with him was giving him exactly what he wanted while sacrificing everything I wanted.
There werent any benefits for me in our FWB relationship.
The only benefit would have been if our situation led to a serious relationship, but that never happened.
Friends who saw each other naked.
He might have been happy with that arrangement, but I was miserable ninety-nine percent of the time.
4.I wish I realized the phraseIm not ready for a relationship right nowis misleading.
Nine times out of ten, it means hes not interested in dating you at any time.
It means you dont have a chance with him.
It means youre better off moving onto the next guy.
5.I wish I realized my standards should have been higher.
I never should have settled for a situation that made me uncomfortable.
The second he said he didnt want a relationship, we should have parted ways.
I should have searched for someone new.
I shouldnt have wasted so much time on someone who was never planning on keeping my heart.
It wasmy choiceto lie about how I could handle the situation.
It wasmy choiceto sleep with him again even though I cried over him the night before.
He let me know how he felt from the start.
Technically, I was the liar.
You should stay single until you find someone who is excited to commit.
