This is exactly why one of the most important things in a relationship is communication.
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Updated 6 years ago,February 12, 2019
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Snipping at your significant other for talking to another person that there could be potential interest in.
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It comes back to haunt, unfortunately.
We will question ourselves.
Our insecurity is high.
Were going to do comparisons and wonder whats so good about them.
What is it about them that you feel the need to check them out.
Again, even if this person is JUST A FRIEND of yours, were going to feel insecure.
Were going to question ourselves.
More questioning, but you know, questioning YOU.
Why are there so many girls/guys on the Facebook friends list that you hardly ever use, huh?
Whos this girl that youre texting?
Were going to constantly wonder if our feelings are valid.
If something comes up, we really dont know if were overreacting or if were underreacting to a situation.
Our ex was always hugging on other people, flirting around, whatever.
They might not have actually cheated, but we dont know.
We dont know if youre looking at another person, were going to wonder if were actually good enough.
WERE GOING TO WONDER IF WERE ACTUALLY GOOD ENOUGH.
Our self-esteem is so low, weve seen our exes comment, like, hug, flirt, etc.
When that happens in front of us, were going to wonder if we are actually enough for you.
Am I pretty enough?
Am I smart enough?
Am I actually what you want?
How am I supposed to know?
Our guards are high.
Youre going to have to climb over the wall.
Its going to be a difficult journey over the wall too, because of everything listed above.
People pleasing is a pain, isnt it?
Its going to be a necessity.
Were going to constantly fixate on it until we have all the answers.
I dont know if youre intending to cheat.
Im afraid to set my own boundaries because I dont want to cause drama.
This is exactly why one of the most important things in a relationship is communication.
We NEED to communicate with our significant others.
They also deserve to know that this can be solved with proper communication.
