People are drawn to truly happy people.
Its healthy to take time for yourself.
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Updated 4 years ago,July 7, 2021
Its okay to stay single.
God & Man
Its okay to respect yourself enough not to fall into a relationship.
And its perfectly normal to feel left out when it seems like everyone around you is settling.
Settling in what is comfortable.
When everyone around you seems to be settling, remember that its okay to be alone.
Its okay to take time to yourself.
When you fall in love with yourself and your life, you open up doors.
You truly shine from within.
When you are happy, you radiate that.
People are drawn to truly happy people.
Its healthy to take time for yourself.
Relationships dont equate happiness.
Just because youre in a relationship doesnt mean youre happy.
I know plenty of couples that are miserable.
But they are comfortable.
Dont think that you have to be in a relationship to be happy.
Its not a race.
I know a lot of people who have settled down because of their timeline.
Because they want to be married by a certain age.
Because they go by societys standards.
Because they want to have children at a certain age.
Its not a race though, and we all live by our own timeline.
Dont fall victim to standards and ideals.
Its okay to have high expectations.
There is no reason to lower your standards just to be in a relationship.
Focus on your career.
Focus on your finances.
Its okay to have high expectations for yourself and others.
Focus on whats important.
I truly believe that things in your life fall into place when you work hard.
You know what youre capable of and deserve more than anyone else.
Drown out the negative.
You know your potential.
Let go of negative thoughts, people, and overthinking.
Let go of anything that hinders your growth.
The older you get, the more you need supportive, real people in your circle.
Get rid of the bad, and allow the good in.
Dont become a cynic.
Its actually really easy to fall into self-pity or doubt.
Its easy to feel sorry for yourself when you have off days.
Its easy to become cynical of love when you see failed relationships and unhappy people around you.
Use that as motivation.
Motivation not to settle.
Motivation to always put yourself first.
Motivation to be better.
I look around daily and see people setting.
People live in fast forward, instead of the moment.
Its easy to feel let down and feel less than.
When you feel that everyone around you is settling, remember that you could do that too.
But theres no point in settling when there is so much life ahead of you.
