You shouldnt be a pessimist.
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Updated 4 years ago,February 6, 2021
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You should stop worrying about looking clingy.
Toa Heftiba
Youve already established you like each other, so why should you hold back your feelings for any longer?
You should let them know theyre loved.
Let them know theyre appreciated.
And let them know theyre missed.
If your relationshipdoesend, you’re free to always download them again.
It doesnt take long.
But in the meantime, you shouldnt be expecting your relationship to go south.
You shouldnt be assuming something is going to go wrong.
You shouldnt be a pessimist.
If youassumeyour relationship is going to end, you could end upcausingit to end on accident.
You shouldnt act like hurting their feelings was justified.
If youre serious about this person, then you shouldnt want to hurt this person.
You should want to be the best partner possible.
But if youre in a serious relationship with someone, you should feel comfortable expressing your emotions to them.
You shouldnt feel weird about opening up to them about your innermost secrets.
You should trust them with your words.
You should believe them when they say they arent going to judge you.
Youre never going to make a relationship work if youre hiding half of your heart.
You have to hand over the whole thing, even though its scary.
If this person is really interested in you, they wont want you to put on an act.
Theyll want you to be yourself.
Theyll want to get to know the real you.
You should stop flirting with other people.It doesnt matter whether you view what youre doing as harmless.
It doesnt matter whether youre only fooling around with friends.
It doesnt matter whether you have zero interest in ending your current relationship.
You should put all of the energy you usually place into flirting and put it into your person.
Show them youre happy with them and only them.
You should stop overthinking every word they say to you.Youre in a relationship now.
If youre upset about a decision they made, you might talk to them.
Most of your problems can be solved with simple communication.
