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Updated 7 years ago,November 11, 2017

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Most of the time, you dont want to be wherever you are.

You dont respect yourself enough.You let yourself get walked over.

Girl who is too nice

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You never speak up when your friends choose a restaurant ormoviethat you dont actually want anything to do with.

And you let that happen.

You let them treat you like theyre the boss and youre one of their loyal followers.

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Even if that means you are going to grow evenmoretired andstressedand resentful.

You will pick movies they will love and you will hate.

You will make dinners they will love and you will hate.

Girl who is too nice

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You care less about yourself than anyone else in this world and that is a big problem.

You think too little of yourself.You say sorry whenever someone bumps into you or answers a question for you.

It makes you sound like you were the one in the wrong.

Even worse, it makes youfeellike you are the one in the wrong.

Your friendships are unhealthy.You are giving more than you are getting.

Youll pretend you dont need to talk to anyone.

You settle for a life that makes you unhappy.You hate confrontation.

Youre afraid to talk to your boss one-on-one, so you never ask for a raise.