You ruin your life thinking you have to be on some track or youll fall behind.

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Updated 8 years ago,July 13, 2017

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When you refuse to live in the moment.

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You ruin your life dwelling in the past and fearing the future.

You ruin your life hanging on so tightly to it instead of letting go and learning.

You ruin your life staring at your phone.

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You ruin your life caring about the opinions of people who dont matter.

When you think its a competition.

You ruin your life trying to make others happy when in reality youre miserable trying to appease them.

Because its your life, not theirs and you do have control over it.

And thats when you fail at anything when you stop focusing on you and look more towards others.

Itll lead you to constantly trying for more.

When you take other peoples opinions into consideration.

Because from the outside everyone is an expert and thinks they know whats best to do.

You ruin your life thinking someone knows better than you.

When you think you have to follow a plan.

Drop out of college and everyone thinks you failed.

And you know there is more out there.

You ruin your life feeling guilty for that answer when its very well a choice.

When you deny your true feelings.

You ruin your life believing them.

By messing with someones head when its you who is denying true feelings while they are honest.

You ruin your life by not following your heart.

When you lose track of what is important.

You ruin your life thinking there are more important things than your friends and family and love.

You ruin your life putting your job first.

Working those extra hours and missing life events.

Working your life away to save but not spending it.

At the end of the day, it isnt what you have but who we have that matters.