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Updated 2 months ago,March 8, 2025
Sometimes, you wont see ghosting coming.
Someone will disappear out of your life without warning when you least expect it.
However, this doesnt have to be a surprise.
Dmitry Berdnyk
They wont give you anything deeper than their favorite movies and musicians.
All of your conversations are superficial or they revolve around you and what you think.
Honestly, you dont know them half as well as you wish you did.
Theyhaveended the conversation out of nowhere when it seemed like they were completely engaged only minutes ago.
Usually, theyre the one ending the conversation prematurely.
And it happens without saying goodbye.
They cancel plans at the last second.Theyre never able to follow through on their plans.
They break promises again and again, leaving you hanging.
And they usually wait until the last second to break the news to you.
They dont give you a warning in advance.
They shoot you a last-second text to say that the plans are off.
They arent involving you in their personal life.They arent introducing you to their friends and family.
They arent making you a part of their routine.
They are keeping you at an arms length.
Its almost like youre a secret.
They reply with one-word answers.You shouldnt be the only one trying to keep the conversation going.
If they usually respond with one or two words, they might be soft ghosting you.
Thats basically when they start to answer slower and give shorter answers until they disappear completely.
It might mean that they arent planning on sticking around.
That they dont intend to be with you for much longer.
Youve seen them do the same thing to others.Ghosting usually isnt a one-time thing.
