It sucks to lose someone you thought you had potential with.
Even if you’ve only known each other for a few weeks, or even days.
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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
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Mathilde Langevin
They wouldnt leave you wondering whether youve done something wrong.
The right person will stay.
Finding love isnt easy.Movies might make it look easy.
The couples who have been together since high school or college might make it look easy.
But for most people, finding love isnt something that happens quickly.
It can take decades to meet your perfect match.
Dont compare yourself to the people around you who just so happened to find love faster.
Theyre not superior to you.
Theyre simply on a different journey than you.
You should be proud about putting yourself out there.Getting ghosted once is bad enough.
When it keeps happening again and again, its natural to want to stop trying.
But youve been brave enough to put your heart on the line time and time again.
Youre not the one who should be embarrassed.The person who ghosted you should be embarrassed.
They should have been respectful enough to tell you that they werent interested.
You didnt do anything wrong here.
Pretty much everyone has gotten ghosted before.Youre not the only one who has wondered where someone special has gone.
In the age of modern dating, pretty much everyone has gone through the same experience.Frequently.
Love isnt the only thing you need so you can be happy.
In fact, you’re free to be perfectly happy without a relationship.
Dont rely on someone else to change your life.
you might do that yourself.
Its okay to be upset.It sucks to lose someone you thought you had potential with.
Youre allowed to be upset over getting ghosted.
Its okay to be a little pissed.
Some people mean it when they make promises.
They would never do you wrong.
