If you cant do that the moment you need, the next best is to call or text them.
Nothings wrong with that.
The problem starts when the other person starts creeping you out why didnt you pick up?
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and pick up now!
and complains if you dont text back immediately.
Obviously, it doesnt start like that.
Its an extension of the calling/texting you all the time need.
But in this case, the other person becomes your shadow.
You cannot be vague about things.
you oughta report back to them with full detail.
All in the name of love.
But somehow this moment doesnt happen.
They either make excuses I really want to be with you and why bother?
and they stay away from your or their friends.
And what started out like fun and exciting becomes restricting and suffocating.
It gets even worse when the other person starts using your secrets to pressure or threaten you.
Show, dont tell should be the golden standard when it comes to proving love.
you might figure that much out from their behavior.
The issue is with their behavior!
And they ask for a second chance.
They insist on a fresh chance and they reassure you that this wont happen.
Sure enough, it does.
They flip, you have a fight, they come back begging you for a second chance.
You give in and the pattern continues.
You follow each other on social media.
Soon you realize its becoming more than that.
They demand to know why you chose to post this versus that photo.
They suggest what you share on your social media.
They ask that you share passwords on your social media.
It all feels uncomfortable and pressuring.
Because thats what it is.
Actually, yes, theres something better than that!
When your partner respects you, trusts your choices and believes that your decisions are for the best.
