You’re convinced that a relationship would add on to your already great life.
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Updated 5 years ago,August 1, 2020
Weve all been victims of heartbreak.
It can be a long, painful, and grueling process to overcome for some.
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For others, its as easy as making another tally mark on their wall of failed love stories.
However long the process of healing is, we can all agree that there is always a process.
The beauty of the heartbreak process is that we always emerge renewed.
Its a common mistake and can sometimes put us back into a funk.
Youve forgiven those who have hurt you.
Youre no longer holding grudges.
Youre not looking for a new love to make anyone jealous or to show them that theyre missing out.
Youre not defined by your love life.
Being single again, especially after a long relationship, can hurt so much.
Were sometimes left feeling void and confused about how to fill the free space and time we now have.
Youre okay with the uncertainty that comes with a new love.
You dont know what to expect and you dont know the outcome, but youre okay with that.
Youre not in your head about where anything is going, youre simply enjoying the new experience.
Youre content being alone.
Youre not in a rush to start anything new because in your healing process youve discovered yourself again.
you could make yourself happy and youre convinced that your happiness doesnt rely on anyone.
Being alone sounds just as good as being in a relationship.
Youve taken time to work on yourself.
Whether it was concentrating on your mental health, your physical health, or your spirit, youve improved.
Youre ready to let someone in to enjoy the benefits of the new you with you.
Youre convinced that a relationship would add on to your already great life.
A new relationship would be the cherry atop the deliciousness that is your sundae of a life.
This cherry doesnt add on very much or take away any of the sweetness.
Its just a plus.
Youre open to being vulnerable again.
Dating someone new also calls for letting them see the sides of you that are weak and sometimes ugly.
Vulnerability also means maturity.
Youre ready to forgive again.
This new person will mess up.
They will sometimes hurt you intentionally and accidentally.
They may break your heart exactly or worse than the previous person.
