When you’ve moved on, you remember the feeling and youre completely okay with it.
The sea is our memories, we cant just jump off the ship or well get drowned by it.
True enough, moving on is not a one day process.
God & Man
Regardless of the severity of the emotional injuries it brought, breakups hurt and can be life-changing.
But we have to go through them.
But are you, really?
God & Man
Its easy to say, Im over him!
You could say that over and over again and we wont be able to read your heart and mind.
But how do you really know when you aretrulyover someone?
You stopped keeping track of the time since you broke up.
So I stopped doing it and eventually, I was able to get over him.
When this time comes, be proud girl!
Because youre completely over him.
You no longer tell everyone youre over him.
Believe me, youre not.
When youve truly moved on, theres no point of telling everyone and every day.
You no longer avoid places or parties.
Losing someone you loved is hard, but dealing with them after break up is harder.
At first, you tend to avoid hangouts with you and your exs mutual friends.
I know that feeling.
Youre no longer curious about him.
Anything about him, in general, doesnt concern you anymore.
Youre open to date again.
You date not because youwantto move on, but because youhavemoved on.
Do not develop rebounding feelings over guys because this will not help you heal.
You are ready to find someone, but youre not in a rush.
You consider work, family time and other activities not as distractions, but things that you love doing.
These ideas are okay.
But over time, you no longer do it to keep you distracted from thinking about your ex.
You do it because you actually love doing it.
You love to work, hang out with family and friends, and just travel.
You love doing things alone.
Solitude is not a bad thing.
But when youve moved on, you remember the feeling and youre completely okay with it.
Youre genuinely happy for him.
If you are everything listed above, then you might really be completely over your ex.
But if you’re free to honestly say that youre still into him, then thats okay.
Timing is not important, you will get there, you will be over him.
Do not push yourself too hard.
Because it will just come naturally, at a time you least expect.
