I was giving myself away too easily.
I wish I knew then what I know now.
Whether you call it a situationship, an understanding.
God & Man
or youre really not surewhatto call it… a labelless love is definitely one you should leave in 2018.
Here are 8 things I wish I wouldve known before getting into a labelless relationship.
A labelless relationship does nothing but leave room for misunderstandings, confusion, and ultimately, heartbreak.
It was like a slap in the face.
And I had given him permission to hurt me, too.
I say it all the time… people get away with what youletthem get away with.
Because of that, I suffered.
I was painting a picture in my head that was so completely different than what was actually taking place.
If he had truly wanted me, there would be no question in my mind about that.
I spent so much time being a girlfriend to him, when I shouldnt have.
I spent so much time learning him so that I could be his person.
I spent so much energy on him that I nearly lost myself.
Obviously, I deserve better.At the time, I was just like you.
I thoughtIdetermined what I deserved… and because of that I sold myself short, even without knowing it.
The signs were there, but I was truly in denial.
It makes me chuckle now, but these are the facts.
But I dont blame him, I blame myself…It wasnt his fault.
I gave him the wrong example of the way I want and deserve to be loved.
He just followed my lead.
Just to be clear, theres no love lost, fellas… Im just being clear about my experience.
To my ladies, were leaving labelless relationships in 2018!
