Because if your partner has HS, then you do too in a sense.
HS can be overwhelming at times.
But Im not the only one who is impacted.
Ive learned that its important to consider my partners feelings as well.
Keep in mind that this isnt easy for either party.
We sometimes need extra privacy.
God & Man
Living with a skin condition can be very embarrassing at times.
There are times when I dont want to leave the house for days on end.
Any special accommodations we might need can add to feelings of isolation or make us feel worthless and burdensome.
My partner offers me extra space when I need it and doesnt take it personally.
Life with a skin disease can be unpredictable at times.
Sudden outbreaks with little or no warning can leave us scrambling to change plans and make last minute accomodations.
Obviously this has an effect on our significant others.
Planning ahead for outbreaks can help minimize potential stress, but always be prepared to face new obstacles.
It will make you stronger.
When we encounter difficult situations, were forced to find methods of coping.
In these ways you develop not only strength as individuals, but strength and unity as a couple.
Its not all bad.
Most of the time Im not experiencing an outbreak.
Most days are normal, and I am free to be the best partner and father I can be.
We work hard, we play hard, and we love each other.
Were just like any other couple, but occasionally our journey turns perilous.
Get ready to play buffer.
When Im having a particularly bad outbreak it can be hard for me to effectively communicate with outsiders.
My fiancee has to play the role buffer between the rest of the world and me.
There will be times when your partner is in extreme pain, or emotionally drained.
It will be up to you to help communicate their needs to everyone else.
This is an important way that it’s possible for you to add value to your partners life.
There may be times when your partner literally cannot work, so its good to be prepared.
Above all, be open and honest with each other.
You may not always want to be, but you must.
Listen to your partner and consider their position.
I am so lucky to have an extraordinary partner.
She is rock solid and completely understanding.
She busts her behind to take care of me, but she has needs too.
Because if your partner has HS, then you do too in a sense.
