Others may not care at all what people think about them.

However, research and common sense suggest that this sentiment makes us happier.

For most of us, not being liked is somewhat hurtful.

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And these types of stress raise the risk of health issues, not to mention emotional exhaustion.

Be curious, be interested, and act as a detectiveask questions not to attack but to understand.

These efforts to get on the individuals wavelength will be cherished.

Being real and not acting as if you have it all together makes you relatable.

The discussions should not be about fixing, demonizing, or shaming anyone.

Humor based on spite or to get a laugh by hurting others is a formula for resentment.

Still, the wit should be comforting and brings a smile to someones face.

double-check to think it over before delivering a joke, as humor indeed might be interpreted as offensive.

Sincere interest

Being sincerely interested in others is socially attractive.

Body language that matches your words

The most important expression is to smile.

It goes a long way; this happy facial expression suggests friendliness, generosity, and inspires trust.