you oughta put your mental health first.
If others dont understand your needs, its not your problem.
You cant worry more about their happiness than your comfort.
Brandon Woelfel
You dont want to sacrifice your mental health to get to make others like you.
Your reputation isnt as important as your health.
People who talk shit about you on social media.
If someone has a problem with you, they should talk it through with you.
They shouldnt complain about you on social media where there are thousands of eyes watching what they say.
Even if they dont talk about you by name, its immature and unacceptable.
People who attempt to manipulate you into giving them what they want.
Dont waste time with people who use guilt trips and manipulation to get their way.
You should make decisions that suityouthe best, not decisions that will cause the least amount of hissy fits.
Its not your job to make others happy.
People who disrespect your boundaries.
Theyre too selfish to put themselves in your shoes.
They lack empathy, which means they could never understand what youre going through.
They dont even want to try.
People who only like you when they can control you.
Youre in charge of your own decisions.
Your family and friends cant expect you to agree with them one hundred percent of the time.
They cant expect to keep you on a tight leash.
You arent theirs to control.
You have your own thoughts and opinions and dreams.
If they dont like it when you think for yourself, they dont like you at all.
People who you gotta walk on eggshells around.
You shouldnt be afraid of what someone is going to say next.
You shouldnt be scared that one wrong move will set them off.
If theyre that unpredictable and volatile, theres no reason to waste time with them.
Their good moments arent worth the bad ones.
People who make you fight for their approval.
You shouldnt have to jump through hoops to make someone like you.
People who make you want to rip out your hair.
You dont need to be friends with everyone.
You dont need to like everyone.
If someone gets on your nerves, you dont need a reason to cut them out of your life.
Youll be happier once theyre gone.
