If they don’t appreciate you now, they won’t appreciate you later.
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Updated 6 years ago,March 12, 2019
1.Pleasing someone wont make them accept you.
You werent born to erase your identity for someone elses sake of mind.
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No good ever comes from placing someone first and yourself last.
If someone doesnt like you for who you are, then they arent your person.
The right person will always make you feel enough just as you are.
I am busy is the equivalent of I dont care.
Dont reward their disinterest with more effort, attention, or care.
3.If they dont appreciate you now, they wont appreciate you later.
Overdoing something for someone wont make them grateful.
If anything, it makes them entitled.
The more you give, the bigger their expectations becomes.
4.You cant be everything all the time.
But it’s possible for you to be what someone needs in a given moment and thats enough.
And the connection you have will easily become toxic.
5.You cant escape how bored you are by seeking amusement where you shouldnt.
You cant fix people, so you might as well let them be.
Its not your job to solve someones problems, make their life better, or make them happy.
6.Your worth isnt defined by what someone else thinks of you.
Struggling with having self-esteem might be the reason why you are going overboard.
You shouldnt care about what someone thinks of you, you should care about how they treat you.
You shouldnt value their approval, you should value the respect they have for you.
And you shouldnt fear losing them, you should fear losing yourself.
7.No one will do the work for you, youll have to do it yourself.
Stop running away from your problems and responsibilities, and start facing them.
You deserve to be at peace and just happy for no damn reason.
Life is hard enough, dont make it harder on yourself.
Direct your energy from outwards to inwards.
Exaggerate with your self-love, emotional wellbeing, self-care, and mental health.
8.Maybe its time for you to let go of your role in their life.
Maybe your role is better played in someone elses life.
Maybe it looks like youre exaggerating simply because theyre not the right for you.
Maybe its time for you to let go of the extra and keep whats left.
