Looking for love in unpromising places.
You kept putting yourself out there, thinking that he/she would change or suddenly realize your worth.
But who were you kidding?
God & Man
Some relationships are just not meant to be.
Not going to work.
If youre only talking to the opposite sex when youre six beers deep at the bar?
Might not be the best place to find love?
This year, stop putting yourself in situations that dont equate to love, hoping youll somehow find it.
Be honest with your intentions, change that damn Tinder bio, and dont settle for less.
God & Man
Okay, we get it.
Dating (often) sucks.
People arent always who they say they are.
So this year, take steps forward.
But you wont know the potentialunless you try.So try.
Maybe youre only looking for a temporary fling.
Maybe you have your heart set on searching for the one.
Maybe youre not quite sure, just letting it all happen.
This year, be realwith yourself, with your dates.
This is the only way youll actually find what youre looking for.
(Without destroying everyone else in the process).
you have to make a move.
In the New Year, stop worrying so much about whos done what, or how youll look.
If youre interested,go for it.Whats the worst thing that can happen?
(He/she says no and then you weed them out.
Thats honestly not that bad.)
Theres a difference between making the move and jumping down a persons throat.
Its okay to feel, but in the New Year also let the other person process, too.
You dont want to betooeager that you scare the person away or be way over the top.
Be true to yourself, but alsorelaxand let things happen naturally.
Emotions are a huge part of relationships and connections.
This year, dont hold back, and dont be afraid to be vulnerable and honest.
If you like the person, then like them, damn it!
Were all too old for games.
And in the end, everyone gets hurt, so whats the point?
You dont know what it’s possible for you to potentially miss out on if youre not.
People are not perfect.
This year, love and respect your person, but also love and value yourself, too.
You both are worthy of love, but youre imperfect.
And thats perfectly okay.
