You have to stop assuming youre meant to reach certain milestones at certain ages.
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Updated 4 years ago,March 24, 2021
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Ill leave eventually.Theres no reason to procrastinate.
Vince Fleming
Dont wait until tomorrow to do something you might accomplish today.
The longer you wait, the harder its going to be to leave.
Besides, you dont want to lead someone on who cares about you.
You dont want them to grow too attached if youre planning on leaving them eventually.
The sex is amazing.You dont want to stay in a relationship for the wrong reasons.
You dont want all your fondest memories to be in the bedroom.
You should be friends as well as lovers.
I dont want to start over.Its scary to call yourself single after years of being in a relationship.
Its scary to take care of yourself.
Its scary to put yourself back in the dating game.
But sometimes, the easiest path forward isnt therightpath forward.
Sometimes you have to make uncomfortable decisions so that truly grow.
Weve been together forever.Stop telling yourself you dont know how to live without them.
you could survive on your own.
you could even find love again.
Just because they were the perfect match for you yesterday doesnt mean the same thing is true today.
Or is that something that youve been telling yourself because you dont want to break up with them?
You dont want to get your heart broken dozens of times over the same person.
You dont want to allow history to keep repeating itself.
There are plenty of other people out there who would love to date you.
They need me.You cant remain in a relationship out of guilt.
Its not your responsibility to take care of them.
Theyre a grown up.
They can survive on their own.
Losing you might hurt them, but they can always bounce back.
I dont want to disappoint anyone.Your family isnt going to be disappointed if you leave your relationship.
Theyre going to be disappointed if you purposely put yourself through hell on their account.
At the end of the day, they want you to be happy.
They want whats best for you.
Im too old to be single.There isnt a set date when you should be married with children.
You have to stop assuming youre meant to reach certain milestones at certain ages.
