What I find sexy, you may not find sexy and vice versa.
Theres a strong correlation between what we find attractive and social status/financial stability.
Having nice clothes, being groomed, even being healthy all costs money.
Angelina Litvin
We find people who are well-off more attractive than those who arent.
Were attracted to people who are most likely to provide a comfortable life for us and our offspring.
We find people attractive when we believe they have an innate greatness.
Angelina Litvin
However, attractiveness and sexiness arent exactly one and the same.
There are plenty of non-sexual qualities that make women incredibly sexy.
The way she walks
Get that image of hip swaying and dipping out of your head.
Thats not what Im talking about.
Its not about the way sheactuallywalks.
Its about the way she walks into a room and somehow instantly catches your attention.
Weve adapted to do these things to keep ourselves out of harms way.
Its easy to judge someone from the outside.
Judging someones soul, on the other hand, is different.
She doesnt judge you.
She simply sees you.
Having confidence because youdeservethat confidence now thats sexy.
Rightful confidence is arguably the sexiest quality a woman can have.
Find a woman that cares.
A woman that is willing to give a helping hand to those who ask for it.
Shes never too busy when her friends and family need her.
How passionately she lives her life
Passion is sexy.
Without passion, love fades.
Without passion, life fades.
Because shes passionate, youll likely become more passionate.
Being passionate makes you feel sexy.
So now youre both feeling passionate and sexy.
Need I say more?
How she makes you want to be a better person
Sexiness has a power to it.
Its an energy that both excites and attracts us.
It even motivates us.
Or rather, the fear of losing her motivates you to become a better version of you.
The way she listens
It can be difficult to understand how being a good listener is sexy.
They dont listen just to listen; they listen just enough so they can respond.
Most of the time people are talking, theyre really just eagerly awaiting the next time they can speak.
You dont know how sexy being a good listener is until you realize how incredibly rare that is.
She doesnt share because she feels that its the right thing to do.
Or because she grew up hearing sharing is caring.
Or because she feels obligated to do so in any way.
Shes sharing the experience.
Shes sharing her life.
The way she loves
She doesnt love you for the things you provide her.
She doesnt love you only for the experiences you share together.
She doesnt only love you because of the way you make her feel.
She loves you because when she looked into your soul, she found that youre a person worth loving.
She loves you for you in a way that very few ever have or ever will.
She loves you an eternitys worth.
