You get uncomfortable when he buys you gifts or surprises you with romantic gestures.
You feel like you haven’t earned it.
You feel like you’re never going to pay him back.
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You have a backup plan prepared.You havent stopped paying attention to other guys since you started dating.
You already have other options in the back of your head.
You dont consider the relationship as permanent as he does.
And you dont want to get attached to them either.
After all, you dont think youre going to be in his life for that much longer.
Theres achance, but its not abigchance.
If he stopped putting in the energy, then you probably wouldnt pick up the slack.
You would accept the relationship is over which means youre delaying the inevitable already.
You havent really been prioritizing your relationship.
In fact, its probably the least of your worries right now.
There are other things you consider more important.
You thought you were in a good enough place to date again, but apparently, you were wrong.
You feel like youre never going to pay him back.
Youve taken the relationship further than you originally wanted.Maybe youve uttered those three little words.
Maybe youve put an official label on your relationship.
