You make excuses to skip sex whenever possible.
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Updated 4 years ago,January 30, 2021
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You avoid having sex with them.You make excuses to skip sex whenever possible.
Dainis Graveris
You lie about having a stomachache, a headache, a backache, a fever.
You tell them youre too tired because you didnt get enough sleep or too exhausted from work.
You will say anything to get out of sleeping with them because you are never in the mood.
Youre counting down the minutes until its over.
You rarely finish.Your person shouldnt be the only one who orgasms.
You should be getting just as much pleasure out of sex as they are getting.
You should be in the same boat.
You fake orgasms.You shouldnt have to lie about your orgasms.
The right person will learn how to make you finish.
And theyll also understand if youre not in the mood to keep going.
You shouldnt have to lie to them about it.
You shouldnt feel pressured to play pretend so that get sex over with already.
You shouldnt be more excited about the chance to touch yourself than be touched by them.
You dont have any passion whatsoever.You dont moan.
You dont really want to be there, so your heart isnt in what youre doing.
Theres absolutely zero passion.
Youre thinking about someone else during the act.Youre not concentrating on the person in front of you.
Youre not enjoying the feeling of their body pressed against yours.
Your mind is focused on an ex or a celebrity or an old flame.
Youre only having sex to get to make your partner happy.Youre not actually interested in having sex with them.
The only reason youre getting naked is because its what yourpartnerwants from you.
You want to make them happy.
You want to make them moan.
But if it were up to you, then sex wouldnt be on the table.
Youre not having a great time.There doesnt have to be anything wrong with your partner.
They dont have to have any glaring red flags.
If you dont want to sleep with them, then dont sleep with them.
Its your body and youre in charge.
