So you’ve gotten ghosted a bunch of times.
Who hasn’t though?
This is just a part of dating, unfortunately.
Younger
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Updated 8 years ago,September 22, 2017
Ah, being ghosted.
Theres nothing more wonderful than being completely ignored and treated as if you mean absolutely nothing.
I mean its not like youre a person who has feelings, amirite?
Younger
Ok, so Im obviously kidding.
Being ghosted utterly sucks.
Being ghosted makes you feel inadequate and unsure of yourself.
It makes you lose faith in love and it makes you doubt if youll ever find your forever person.
Were living in a time where its almost shameful to have feelings.
Were a numbed generation when it comes to honesty.
Ghosting equates to dishonesty.
Its something cowardly people do when theyre afraid to admit that you didnt meet their expectations.
If youve been ghosted for the umpteenth time, chin up madear!
Your forever person is definitely somewhere, but in the meantime, dont let this make you bitter.
Youre absolutely worth loving and you will not die alone.
Dont let a persons lack of human decency make you do any of the things below.
No one is THAT busy, no one decides to not look at their phone for days.
Theyre not into you and theyre absolutely ghosting you.
Dont waste perfectly good texting energy trying to contact them.
Also, dont harass them and tell them that they suck for ghosting.
Theyre simply not even worth your rant.
If you do want to rant, write in a journal or call a good, supportive friend.
No answer to texts should get a follow-up call, right?
Oh my gosh, dont do that!
Again, if they havent texted you back and its been days, just let it go.
Theyre not worthy of hearing your gorgeous voice, anyway.
Theyre not worth any words that are coming out of your mouth.
Dont write sad Facebook statuses.
Crying burns calories that this person is not even worth you burning.
you’re free to feel sad, but preserve your tears for when something truly horrible happens.
If your reaction to being ghosted is more aggressive, punch a pillow.
Dont let this idiocy make you furrow your brow.
Not worth it, babe!
Dont go back to them if they attempt to come back.
Ghosters sometimes resurface, and when they do you feel compelled to give them another shot.
To be honest, I wouldnt.
Dont be an asshole if you run into them one day.
If you run into them and they say hello, say hello.
They probably wont say hello, but if they did show them youre a decent human.
There are other fish in the sea!
As cliche as that may sound, its true.
This clearly wasnt the person for you, so dont stay on this subject for too long.
Move on, date other people and enjoy life.
DO NOT LET THIS ROB YOU OF YOUR JOY!
So youve gotten ghosted a bunch of times.
This is just a part of dating, unfortunately.
Not dating at all is obviously not an option, guys!
Dont let this new idea of normalcy bring you down.
Dont let it erase your smile and make you give up.
You have a right to be bothered by it, but that feeling should be momentary.
No one is worth you being sad all the time.
Smile, live, and dont fret.
Love will find you.
