Love is the most uncomfortable form of comfortable Ive ever experienced.
Here are 9 uncomfortable lessons you deserve to learn about love.
Lesson #1: Love can (and probably) will happen more than once in your life.
Edward Eyer
It gives me hope that my forever love is out there.
I never take a lost love as the end of finding love.
Thats the uncomfortable part.You have to keep believing in love.
Lesson #2: Love needs you to be vulnerable.
Every moment of every day is unknown.
Its uncomfortable, yet necessary.
Lesson #3: Love can be emotionally challenging, but its not supposed to be primarily painful.
Dont sell yourself short.
Lesson #4: Love doesnt happen the same for everyone.
Write your own story.
I promise youll like that one better.
Lesson #5: Love is not lust.
Love is so much stronger than physical attraction.
I wish I had more to say about this, but the facts are the facts.
It should be uncomfortable to feel like you truly love someone youve only found physical infatuation in.
Dig deeper, my love.
Beauty is only skin deep.
Lesson #6: Love functions at its best with sacrifice, patience, and compromise.
Again, love is a two-way street and it takes effort from both parties.
That effort is unquestionably going to require sacrifice, patience, and compromise.
Lesson #7: Love changes you.
Thats what Im referencing when I say that love changes you.
Love should groom youfor a lack of better wordsbut it shouldnt require you to become someone youre not.
Lesson #8: Love requires accountability.
I was selfishand love can do that to you, too.
I didnt truly hold myself accountable for my part in the relationship.
Love takes the dedication of both parties involved.
Lesson #9: You deserve love… the real thing.
Even though its uncomfortable to consider when your hope in love is currently diminishing… YOU DESERVE LOVE.
No matter how bad you think the pickings are.
No matter how many times youve been hurt.
No matter how badly you want to say FUCK LOVE… dont give up.
Your real love is out there and youre deserving of every ounce of it!
Heres to never giving up, friends!
