You break your own heart not loving yourself first.
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Updated 6 years ago,November 3, 2018
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You break your own heart clinging to an old love.
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The good parts about an old love are supposed to set the standards for future relationships.
But it ended for a reason.
Stop looking at only the good parts and comparing that to every relationship you have.
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You arent giving people a fair shot doing that.
When you cling to the past you remember it better than it actually was.
You break your own heart caring about someone who doesnt care about you.
If you find they cant, dont maintain that relationship.
Dont keep trying to win them over.
You break your own heart fearing love.
Love isnt what hurts.
Watching someone fall out of love hurts.
But love is the only thing that doesnt hurt.
You break your own heart not loving yourself first.
If you dont know how to love yourself how do you expect someone else to?
As much as you invest in others, that effort you should be putting into yourself.
The relationship you have with yourself sets the foundation for every other relationship you have.
When you love yourself you dont allow someone to treat you badly.
You break your own heart choosing the wrong people.
Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
Stop choosing the same throw in of person who hurt you.
Stop going after someone who is emotionally unavailable.
Stop going after the player or the bad boy.
If your relationships end the same way, look at the people you are choosing.
You break your own heart being jealous of everyone.
Jealousy will ruin every relationship you have and every relationship you have yet to have.
To be jealous means you are insecure.
Jealousy is normal but if you look at everyone else and ask, why dont I have that?
Youll just attract more of what you already have which isnt much.
Learn to appreciate both yourself and what you do have already.
You break your own heart not taking a chance on someone who can make you happy.
We all have that one person we know cares about us.
And youve flirted with the idea of being with them.
You go back and forth thinking maybe?
But you dont actually do anything about.
You break your own heart not being clear about what you want.
Its a generation thats told caring isnt cool.
Leading people on is okay.
Have standards and dont lower them until someone meets them.
If its a relationship you want dont be afraid to admit it.
You break your own heart not trusting anyone.
Take a chance on people and I promise you youll come across someone good with genuine intentions.
