Realize success isnt going to happen overnight.
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Updated 7 years ago,September 10, 2018
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Forgive people even when they arent sorry.2.
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Forgive yourself because you deserve peace of mind.3.
If something scares you thats probably the choice you should make.4.
If you think youre settling you probably are.
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Dont like boys who ignore you.6.
Dont give people relationship benefits if they dont want a relationship.7.
Dont think too much about someone blowing up your newsfeed.8.
If youre tired of being played stop responding.9.
Set a clear standard for the relationship you want.10.
If someone doesnt meet your standards realize what needs to change is the person not your expectations.11.
If someone makes you feel like youre not good enough it isnt your job to prove you are.
Learn to speak to yourself a little more kindly.13.
Learn to talk about others a little nicer.14.
Be kinder to others because you never know what someone is going through.15.
Realize people are only mean when threatened.
Realize not everything you think needs to come out of your mouth.17.
If it isnt kind dont say it.18.
If it isnt true dont share it.
If something isnt making you happy stop doing it.20.
If you dont want to go out stay in and dont feel bad about it.21.
How someone depicts their life across social media isnt always an accurate depiction of it.
Dont be so hard on yourself.23.
When you feel defeated learn to take a break, dont quit.
Realize not everyone is going to like you and thats okay.25.
Realize there are some people who watch your every move because they want you to fail.26.
Use that as motivation.
If someone rejects you that doesnt mean you should reject yourself.
Pay close attention to how you feel around certain people.29.
And if someone is toxic keep them at arms length.
If the relationship still hasnt gone where you want it to say goodbye.
If you really want something, make a plan of how to get there.32.
Set realistic goals for yourself.33.
Realize success isnt going to happen overnight.
Realize when youre giving someone too many chances.35.
Realize when you might not be benefitting someone elses life and let them go.
Pay close attention to the red flags in your life.
Do what makes you happy.
Dont try so hard to impress others or give them a reason to stay.39.
Realize the people who are meant to be in your life arent going anywhere.
Spend every day trying to improve even a little bit.
Treat people better than they treat you.42.
But also know when someone doesnt deserve your effort and its time to walk away.
Remember the little things people do for you.44.
And when someone does something wrong, dont forget the things they did right.
Stop trying so hard to make everyone else happy if the choice you are making isnt something you want.
When an ex-comes back dont let them in so easily.47.
Realize someone hurting you once is a mistake but when they do it a second time its a choice.
Call your parents more and tell them you love them.49.
When that moment comes and you realize how much they sacrificed for you say thank you.
Realize what your areas of weakness are and work to improve there.
Dont go looking for a relationship if you havent figured out how to be alone.
Stop comparing yourself to others.53.
Only compare yourself to the person you were yesterday,
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Stop ruining relationships because youre afraid of getting hurt.55.
Stop choosing the wrong people because youre afraid to get it right.56.
Stop saying youre bad at relationships.57.
And realize theres a difference between not being good enough and right enough.58.
And learn to stand still, letting things and people come to you.
Realize the value of your time and your attention.61.
Dont waste someone elses.62.
If youre unsure of how you feel about someone let them go.63.
Because you both deserve certainty.
Learn to live in the moment.65.
Stop being so attached to your phone.66.
Focus more on the people who are there IRL.
Stop clinging to pain because youre used to it.68.
Quit thinking hes going to come back because youre only hurting yourself.69.
Stop holding on so tight to the memories youre afraid youll forget.
Understand there are some people youll love but wont be with.71.
That realization shouldnt haunt you.
Dont hold yourself back just because youre scared.
Learn how to listen.75.
You arent always going to be right.76.
Learn when to apologize.
Realize when youre in a bad mood and learn how to change it.78.
Whatever energy you project out into the world ensure its positive.79.
Respect everything youre feeling even if its things you arent proud of.80.
Learn to feel through some of your uglier emotions then let them go.
Be able to answer the question what do I want?82.
Be able to answer the question what will make me happy?83.
If you cant answer those questions youll never be satisfied with anything in your life.
Realize when youre holding onto someone you should be letting go of.85.
Realize when the part you play in someone elses life is over.86.
And dont stay there just because you might have a history.
If theres some big change you want to make in your life go for it.88.
If theres somewhere you want to go stop making up excuses or holding it off.89.
Realize youre in control of your life and no one else is.90.
And if you arent proud of the life youre leading change it because you’re free to.
- Because everything you have or dont have in your life is a reflection of the choices youve made.
