People who truly have their shit together don’t need to brag about having their shit together.
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Updated 1 year ago,April 5, 2024
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Its not going to be spontaneous or egregious or extreme in any way.
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In a lot of way, most ways, it will be boring.
But boring will be what you need.
Getting your shit together doesnt mean turning in your fun card and never staying out past midnight ever again.
It just means that you dont put fun above everything, including your own well-being.
Getting your shit together doesnt make you immune to failure.
But it does make it a hell of a lot easier to bounce back.
When you really have your shit together, you just do.
You wont feel the need to be the self-appointed peanut gallery on someone elses journey.
Its not a bragging right, it just is.
You will still have bad days, you will still feel defeated.
And even though someone might not NEED you to take care of them?
Its really comforting and lovely to know that youre able to should that ever present itself.
You deserve to stop waiting for things to happen to you and to make them happen instead.
You deserve to methodically and purposefully control your own life.
Your self will, in turn, take care of you.
That the bad will not (always) outweigh the good.
That even when things get crazy, they will balance out again.
youre just happy for them.
You think, Good for them, when you see them achieving or succeeding.
Instead, youre just fine where you are.
You dont compare your journey and your trophy cabinet to someone elses.
Getting to know yourself, getting to know what you need is really difficult, exhausting, hard work.
But once you do it?
No one can take that away from you.
