Life is fluid, and people come and go.
And then the thoughts continue.
Youre so very tired, but you cannot seem to shut off your brain.
Sunsetoned
Inevitably, your mind turns to that person… the one you miss.
The one you lost, or who lost you somehow.
When this happens, as it does so frequently, remember this:
They arent here.
Whatever the reason may be, they are not a part of your present reality.
Yes, it hurts, sometimes to the point where you feel you cannot bear another moment.
No human exists entirely without pain, and the despair of losing love cuts deeply.
Do you tend to attach and cling on to others?
Almost everyone does this, so dont feel bad.
If it wasnt an issue, there wouldnt be entire religions based on the idea of non-attachment.
The only thing that is constant in life is change.
Love that can let them go when their presence is no longer resonant.
You control no one but yourself.
This is both a freeing realization, and for some, a terrifying one.
You are the creator of your own life.
While you dont control how others react to you, you do control yourself and the decisions you make.
Are you wallowing in victim mentality?
Are you lying there in bed, tossing and turning, distressed and angry about how someone treated you?
Are you focusing entirely on the past and on what you cannot change?
Its time to let go of them and take control of yourself.
Like it or not, everything in life is a decision.
Isnt it time to stop?
Dont you want to feel more at peace?
You deserve to find someone who doesnt leave you feeling this way.
Sometimes its difficult to let go of love because you dont believe youll ever meet anyone else who fits.
Maybe they were the right fit at some point.
Maybe they never really were but you just wanted them to be so badly that you made it work.
There are so many complicated emotions at play when it comes to love.
If you are still yearning over someone who is gone, you are afraid to let go.
You are afraid of the future.
You are afraid youll never feel that way again.
But you will and youll find someone who will stay.
You deserve that person.
You matter, and you deserve the most beautiful love.
Now take a deep breath, release whatever emotion feels stuck inside you, and let yourself sleep.
Know that something better is coming for you.
