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Updated 3 years ago,February 24, 2022
These are the simplest facts of love.
Love is not supposed to hurt you more than it heals you.
The right person makes the timing right.
Dimitri
Indecision is a decision, and that decision isno.
Love is not hard.
Attachment is hard, and grief is hard, and expectations are hard.
Unconscious fears are hard, and old traumas are hard.
Losing a sense of security is hard.
Exiting your comfort zone is hard.
Facing the world alone when you thought youd have someone to rely on is hard.
Realizing youre lost and a relationship would make you found is hard.
Having the one potential version of your future you were most invested in fall through is hard.
But love is not hard.
Love doesnt debate whether you should be together.
Love doesnt leave you to look for signs that you should return.
Love doesnt make you question whether you are worth someones time.
Love doesnt make you feel as though you have to compete with someone else for it.
Love doesnt make you prove your goodness before you’ve got the option to receive it.
Love is a present thing, not an abstraction.
Its not something we have to wonder about, or calculate.
Those we love exist within our lives in real time.
Love is when presence meets passion.
Love is a healing force.
Love is learning someone inside and out.
This is what your soulmate will do.
Instead of criticizing, they will help soften your judgments.
Instead of looking down on you, they will help you look more positively at yourself.
Instead of trying to fix you, they will walk with you as you fix yourself.
Broken love is not something you must endure so that earn something better.
Love is so much deeper and so much greater than just starry eyes and racing hearts.
Its two lives being woven together before either of you really knows whats happening.
You know when you are in love.
You know when you are supposed to be with someone.
This is what youre holding out for.
This is what youre waiting on.
But what seems right on the surface matters little, because love is what happens just beneath.
Its an unconscious response to one another, a bonding, a forming of an entirely new life together.
One day, you will understand that your soulmate is your lifelong teacher, healer, and partner.
They are the person with whom you will do every mundane thing for the rest of your life.
Your soulmate is someone who helps heal you.
Not someone you need healing from.
