No, you shouldnt waste your time on a relationship where your texts are never answered.
No, you shouldnt continue a friendship where you feel neglected.
However, you gotta realize no ones life revolves around you.
Stephen Leonardi
Everyone has their own set of problems, needs, and responsibilities.
If you havent seen your friend in a month, it doesnt necessarily mean they are a bad friend.
It might mean theyre struggling financially and cant afford to fly out to see you.
It might mean they have other things to do notbetterthings just more crucial things.
Its easy for your overthinking to get out of hand.
Your friend probably didnt cancel because they hate you.
They probably didnt cancel because they wanted to play games with you.
They probably didnt cancel because they think its funny to hurt you.
If canceling plans becomes a pattern, then yes, you should leave this person in your past.
But if your friend screws up once or twice, dont blame them and dont blame yourself.
Sometimes, life is unexpected.
It gets in the way of plans.
Unfortunately, you cant always make time for whats most important to you at least not every single day.
Your friend who hangs out with you once a month might have trouble setting aside eventhatmuch time for you.
Yes, you should keep your standards high.
You shouldnt settle for less than you deserve.
You shouldnt stay in a situation that hurts you.
But you should also recognize everyone has shit to do.
They have their own goals and responsibilities.
You cant expect them to be there for you every second of every day.
Thats just not realistic.
