You have to make yourself a home that youre welcome in.

Although each of these people or places can feel like home, theyre all so finite.

They could all be so temporary, and they could all fall out of your control.

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Jonathan Borba

The person that youre in love with that feels like home, could leave you in an instant.

The apartment that you cling to, is simply a combination of material objects.

Regardless if we like it or not, we need a place to call our own.

We need a safe haven, a refuge, somewhere we are loved, and trusted.

At the end of the day, you have to come home to yourself.

I dont mean that you have to live on your own, and can never enjoy companionship.

I mean that you have to belong to yourself.

You make yourself home by finding inner peace, stability, and comfortably being in your own skin.

You make yourself home by setting boundaries with others and not being a doormat.

When you come home to yourself it is a perfect paradox.

It is the place where youre searching for belonging but dont need it.

Coming home to yourself is giving yourself the opportunity to change, grow, and become someone completely new.

The world is going to throw a million things at once at you.

At the end of the day, you have to come home to you.

You have to belong to you.