Be your own Khaleesi - and dont you dare wait for a khal.
It is inherent, it is part of you.
Your worth is not dependent on your marital status.

Game Of Thrones
Say it with me, my worth is not dependent on my marital status.
Now say it again.
Your worth is not dependent on your marital status.
Your crowd is not contingent on your proximity to a king.
There is fire in your bones, in your blood, and in your spirit.
There is the wisdom of the women whom you came from in your heart.
There is untapped power in all of you, in all that you’re able to do.
you might be your own Khaleesi.
you might be a leader.
There is leadership in your veins so step onto your platform.
Let the fire in your body fuel you towards your visions.
Let it inform your actions and scorch the distractions.
The flames within you were meant to burn bright be wary of those who wish to smother your spark.
Let the wisdom of the women who came before you speak wisdom into your heart.
Hear their words, and learn from them.
Remember that you could learn from their successes and their failures, for the two are not mutually exclusive.
Remember that just because they took one road, does not mean you have to take the same one.
Recognize your power see it, hear it, feel it coursing through your veins.
Learn how to embrace it, how to channel it, how to use it to fuel you forward.