Sometimes we self-sabotage because we refuse to tackle our problems head on.
Maybe you have been feeling a disconnect from your partner for a while.
Maybe you feel that your relationship is not headed anywhere.
Djim Loic
Maybe the honeymoon stage has faded into a life of monotony and repetitiveness.
Now, I am not here to discourage a genuinely unhealthy relationship from ending.
The same goes for abusive and toxic partnershipsstaying with such people is never justified.
Your mouth salivates at the very sight of it.
One night, you decide to try it.
You fall in love with this dessert.
And so you return to the same restaurant the following night to order it again.
The first dessert you tried will not changeit is still made of the same quality ingredients.
But this train of thinking is endless, and it can cause unnecessary pain and heartbreak.
You are not perfect.
You have flaws, too.
But your partner has chosen to overlook these because they chose you.
If that spark has faded, you must realize this is a natural part of long-term relationships.
But does this person still cook you dinner?
Do they tell you how much they love you?
Do they bring you chocolates when youre feeling upset?
Weigh all the factors and make the choice you feel is most right for you.
you better dig deep to find out why you feel the way you feel.
Maybe, your perception of a perfect relationship has been influenced by Disney movies and steamy on-screen kisses.
Try and remember what made you fall in love with this person in the first place.
Maybe this is your second chance at something really amazing.
