These people would have ended up breaking your heart.
It will save you trouble in the long-run.
Let them know what makes you uncomfortable.
kevin laminto
Let them know what you arent willing to stand for in a relationship.
Be polite about it but be straightforward about it.
Never assume they must know whats on your mind.
Never expect them to guess what you want from them.
If youre wondering what the hell is going through the other persons mind, be honest about it.
You dont have to spend hours trying to decipher mixed signals.
you’re free to simply ask the question thats been bugging you.
it’s possible for you to be blunt.
Theres nothing stopping you from sending a straightforward text or sitting them down for a mature, adult conversation.
Youre allowed to have questions and youre allowed to ask them.
In fact, thats part of being in a healthy relationship.
If the person wants you to do those things, theyre probably not ready for a commitment.
Theyre probably not on the same page as you are.
The right person is going to find your transparency refreshing.
The right person is going to admire your honesty and they are going to be honest, too.
