It takes time to build a loving, trusting relationship.
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Updated 6 years ago,June 11, 2019
Breaking down your walls takes time.
It isnt going to transform you into a completely new person.
Makhmutova Dina
Youll still have baggage.
You cant get angry at yourself for how hard it is for you to open up to someone special.
Its natural to guard your heart.
You might not even know when you meet your forever person.
The puppy love stage comes first.
And before that comes the awkward, getting-to-know-you stage.
It takes time to build a loving, trusting relationship.
You might not feel comfortable opening up to your person about your past early on in the relationship.
You might keep some cards close to your chest.
And thats perfectly fine.
You dont have to reveal everything right away.
You dont have to commit after the first date.
you’re able to take your time.
you’ve got the option to set your own pace.
They will understand if you need some time before committing.
They will understand if you want to get to know them better before spilling your secrets.
Breaking down your walls takes time.
It makes sense for you to stay cautious with your history.
The right person is going to put in the effort to help you feel comfortable with them.
They are going to show you theyre someone you’ve got the option to count on.
Its an ongoing process.
Youre not going to tear down every wall overnight.
Youre slowly going to start trusting this person.
Youre slowly going to start opening up to them about things youve never told another living soul before.
One day, without seeing it coming, youre going to realize every wall has been torn down.
Youre going to realize youve let your person completely inside your heart.
