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Updated 4 years ago,May 22, 2021
Dating can be a hell of a ride.
It excites you but it also gives you a certain level of stress.
But you take the gamble anyway, hoping that you will finally find the right guy.
He will never let conversations with you run dry.
He will do his best to really get to know you by asking the right questions.
He will show you that he is interested in learning what makes you tick.
One way of confirming whether he likes you too is if he sends you a message first.
Now, this does not mean he should be the one reaching out first all the time.
He will not wait for days to check on you.
His name will pop up on your phone screen each time he remembers you.
And that is enough proof that he is dedicated to making you feel like you matter.
You are going to have a lot of questions.
You are going to pay attention to every word that flies out of his mouth.
It will be his goal to slowly earn your trust until you fully open up to him.
This thought is a dangerous one to entertain, but very important.
Because it is pointless to continue running after someone who constantly puts you on the backburner.
No one deserves to feel like they are not a priority.
The guy who sees a future with you will let you know that you are part of his schedule.
To a certain degree, it is understandable that there is no such thing as a perfect guy.
Something about him will disappoint you once in a while.
He will have qualities that you will not like.
But when you see the cracks forming and loopholes appearing, your special connections with him should never weaken.
Otherwise, there is a problem that you have been putting off that you should probably solve immediately.
If your heart beats wildly for him, you will always find something lovely in his imperfections.
Honesty and loyalty are two important things that should be present in every relationship.
Aside from a guys outer appearance, you also have to consider if he has good intentions.
Be aware of the way he talks to you.
Asking him whether he is seeing other people is a question you deserve an answer of.
Not all your dates are going to be fun.
The good news is that you get better from experience.
You learn more after dating a few guys.
But most importantly, you slowly get to realize the kind of guy you should be going after.
Ask yourself if you think he will stick around even when your relationship with him becomes boring.
Pay attention to the efforts he is making.
And it is probably the time that you move on to the next one.
