He might tell you he’s not interested in anything serious with you.

He might turn around and start dating someone else.

Or he might ghost you without giving you any sort of explanation.

Chasing Him Is Only Going To Hurt You

Yoann Boyer

Chasing him is going to cause you to develop new insecurities.

Eventually, youre going to start comparing yourselves.

But you have to remember, he doesnt owe you anything.

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Your kindness doesnt bind him to you.

He never promised you anything.

It might not end with a happily ever after.

It might not end with a real relationship.

He might tell you hes not interested in anything serious with you.

He might turn around and start dating someone else.

Or he might ghost you without giving you any sort of explanation.

Unfortunately, it doesnt matter how much work you put into loving someone.

It doesnt matter how many nice things you do for him.

You cannot convince him to fall in love with you.

You cannot force him to see your beauty.

He could walk away without giving you a chance.

He could decide you arent the right one for him and you have to accept it.

Theres nothing you might do to change his mind.

Youre going to feel like you did something wrong.

Youre going to feel like all of the time and effort you put into him was a waste.

Its better to hold out for someone who feels as strongly as you do since day one.

Someone who is as excited about your love story as you are.

Someone you never have to chase.