In a way, doing all the work is easier.
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Updated 4 years ago,September 2, 2021
Chasing someone doesnt seem so bad at first.
After all, you want to show them youre worth the trouble.
Cameron Stewart
You want them to know youre willing to put effort into your relationship.
You want them to see the best possible version of yourself.
You want to get on their good side.
You want to sweep them off their feet.
You know relationships require hard work and you arent afraid to put in that work.
Especially since you get something out of it.
In a way, doing all the work is easier.
But that feeling doesnt last.
As time passes, doing all the work feelswrong.
It feels like youre the only one who cares.
After all, if you didnt send the first text, you two probably wouldnt talk for a week.
If you didnt plan out dates, you probably wouldnt leave the house for a month.
If you didnt do the majority of the work, the entire relationship would fall apart.
Your person might be used to you picking up the slack.
They might expect you to do everything for them, without hesitation, without asking for anything in return.
They arent going to make you bend over backwards so that impress them.
They arent going to make you fight for their love, their affection, their attention.
The right person is going to send as many texts as you send.
Theyre going to plan as many dates as you plan.
You both have to care.
You both have to do your fair share.
Theyre going to run toward you.
