No man who loves you will make you feel as if youre compromising yourself to be with him.
Because thats not love, thats manipulation.
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Updated 7 years ago,October 13, 2018
Dear women, you deserve tenderness.
Joe St. Pierre
You deserve hands that will hold you with care, but also empower you.
You deserve to be treasured, but not regarded as fragile.
Because you are an equal.
You deserve a partner who will build you, not break you.
Dear women, you deserve love.
You deserve kindness and care, eyes that see you and a mind that longs to connect with yours.
Joe St. Pierre
Dear women, you deserve to be valued.
You deserve to be noticed.
Dear women, you deserve what you put out into the worldpassion, love, strength, and care.
You deserve a man who will understand the desires of your heart andnot feel emasculatedby them.
Do not confuse love with someones selfishness.
You dont have to put yourself in an unhealthy position just to be cared for.
Listen, love is not about lessons.
Love is not about changing someone to fit.
Love is not about shoving down someones feelings, or being in a constant power play.
Love is not abusive, scheming, or calculating.
It is not hurting one person so another can rise up.
Love is about learning who you are as an individual and alongside someone else.
It is about encouragement and passion.
It is about genuine care, even in moments of messiness and frustration.
Love is about mistakes and confusion and chaos and beauty.
Love is not easy, but it isnt meant to destroy you.
like stop changing who you are to be what he needs.
kindly stop thinking you have to be less so he can be more.
kindly stop telling yourself that this is lovebecause this is everything but.
Will inspire you, not cover you.
Will praise you, not put you down.
Will empower and strengthen you, not weaken you withwordsand actions.
Will make compromiseswith you, not demand that you change until you cant recognize yourself.
Have the strength to know who you are and what you are worthy of.
To know that this is not love, and will never be.
Dear women, dont compromise yourself for any man.
And value yourself enough tonot settlefor anything less than the love you deserve.
