But, really, you shouldnt regret doing whatever it takes to heal.
You shouldnt be so hard on yourself.
Here are a few things you might considermistakesthat actually arent as bad as they seem:
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Dont feel guilty about needing another body on top of yours.
Dont feel actual shame on your walk of shame.
Its a good reminder that your ex isnt the only person interested.
They arent the only one who sees the good in you.
Crying your eyes out.Youre allowed to be upset over losing someone even if that person was an asshole.
Even if you werent in a serious relationship.
Even if you knew they werent going to stick around forever.
Its dangerous to bottle up your emotions, so you should let yourself cry.
Dont feel silly over your tears because its natural to be upset when you lose someone.
Its perfectly normal to need a release.
Maybe you wanted answers.
Maybe you wanted to vent.
Or maybe you wanted to get back together with them.
No matter what your reason was for texting them, its okay that you reached out.
Its okay that youre having trouble coping without them.
Your life is different without them in it.
Its going to take some time to adjust.
They wouldve seen your new profile picture.
Its hard to keep your relationship private in this day and age.
And honestly, no one else is judging you as much as youre judging yourself.
Everyone has been in a similar situation before.
Spending hours ranting to your friends and family.Your loved oneswantto be there for you.
Theywantto help you endure your heartache.
You shouldnt be going through this alone.
Your friends and family can help you with your healing process.
Simply knowing they are there for you’re free to be a big comfort.
It can help you get over them.
Its good to get them off your mind.
Its good to give yourself some distance from them.
