Dont be surprised when she looks at you and doesn’t feel a thing.
You taught her how to stop loving you.
You taught her that you wont show up when she needs you.
Sarah Loven
You taught her how to count on someone else.
Dont be surprised when she spends more time with her friends than you.
You taught her that youre never going to be present.
You dont listen when she speaks.
You dont remember the things she told you.
You dont ask about how shes feeling or whats bothering her.
You taught her that youll never care about her as much as her friends do.
Dont be surprised when she starts planning things without you.
You taught her that youll always say no.
You taught her how to plan her future without you.
You never wanted to see the world through her eyes.
Dont be surprised when she doesnt miss you when youre gone.
You taught her how not to miss you.
You made her feel like you never missed her.
She never felt like her absence made a difference to you.
She never felt that she added any value to your life.
You never showed her that you missed her.
You never told her.
Dont be surprised when she ignores you.
Youve been ignoring her for years.
Shes always been the one compromising.
Shes always been the one to change her schedule for you.
Shes always been the one who tried harder.
She was always more invested until she realized that it was a bad investment.
An investment that she keeps losing.
Shes starting to remember what she deserves.
Shes slowly opening her eyes and seeing how much youre taking her for granted.
Shes slowly coming to the realization that someone else could treat her so much better.
Someone else will not make her feelinvisible.
Dont be surprised when she stops being attentive or caring.
Dont be surprised when her tender words turn sour and her burning passion turns cold.
Dont be surprised when she looks at you and doesnt feel a thing.
You taught her how to stoplovingyou.
Dont be surprised when she leaves because you never gave her a reason to stay.
