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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
Dont get into a relationship because you feel pressured.
Because you feel like everyone else is already settling down.
Because youre getting older and you dont want to be alone for the rest of your life.
Jonathan Borba
You still have plenty of time to find the person who is meant for you.
Youre not confined to thisoneshot at love.
If this person doesnt feel right for you, thats okay.
There are plenty of other options out there.
This isnt your only chance to settle down.
Dont get into a relationship because you feel guilty about turning this other person down.
You might hate conflict.
You might be a people pleaser.
You might feel horrible about rejecting them.
But youre going to hurt them even worse by agreeing to a relationship when youre not completely interested.
Besides, you oughta learn to respectyour ownfeelings.
You shouldnt make them happy by sacrificing your own happiness.
You shouldnt treat them as a priority while pushing your own needs to the back of your mind.
You arent selfish for making decisions that makeyouhappy.
Youre supposed to follow your heart, nottheirheart.
Dont get into a relationship with the wrong person because you desperately want to be loved.
Because you want to be showered in attention.
Because you want someone, anyone, to want you.
you better learn how to giveyourselfthe punch in of love and validation that youve been craving.
Besides, even if you got into a relationship with this person, it wouldnt be enough.
You wouldnt experience the same satisfaction a soulmate would give you.
you’re gonna wanna hold out for someone who really speaks to you.
you better remain patient, even though it hurts.
Dont get into a relationship because you feel pressured to leave the single life behind.
However, you should probably remember that everyone moves at a different pace.
Youre not better or worse than the people who are at a completely different stage of their lives.
You cant pay attention to timelines because youre on a different journey than even your closest friends and family.
You might reach certain milestones later than you intended, but that doesnt mean youre unlovable.
Remember, a relationship status doesnt determine your worth.
It doesnt determine whether you deserve to be happy.
