Let yourself see their flaws.
Look at your relationship from a rational point of view.
Notice what needs to be worked on.
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What can be salvaged and what can never be saved.
Just because you love someone, that doesnt mean that youre supposed to stay together.
That doesnt mean that you fit each other in a healthy, nontoxic way.
That doesnt mean that you should probably lower your standards and rearrange your expectations for them.
If someone hurts you, you have to acknowledge what they have done.
You have to accept the truth even if you love them.
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Even if you cannot imagine your life without them.
Even if you would rather live in a fake fairy tale than the real world.
If you do that, you are going to get taken advantage of in the future.
You are going to risk staying in a relationship that you never belonged in for this long.
Yes, everyone makes mistakes.
Yes, you are allowed to give someone another shot.
As long as the pain doesnt repeat itself and become part of a cycle.
You dont want to be stuck with someone who hurts you.
Someone who wastes your time.
Its easy to stay in a relationship out of love.
Its easy to assume that your feelings are all that you need.
But that is bullshit.
You also need respect.
Dont stay in a relationship that you know is meant to be over.
Dont ignore the bad in someone just because you have feelings for them.
Dont let yourself become blinded by your emotions.
Stay single until you find the person who actually deserves you.
The kind of person who would never dream of hurting you.
