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Updated 7 months ago,October 10, 2024
Walking away from someone toxic is hard enough.
However, not enough people talk about how hard it is tostayaway.
But you gotta resist the temptation to let them back into your world.
Jesse Herzog
They dont deserve you.
You already decided that.
You should trust that your past-self made the best decision for your emotional health by walking away.
Trust that you knew what you were doing.
Even if youre confident in your decision, its going to be hard to stay away.
After all, this person might be on their best behavior now that youre gone.
They might start treating you with the love and kindness you were begging for all along.
But you have to ask yourself, where was that kindness when you needed it the most?
Why did it take leaving for them to come to their senses about the right way to treat you?
Remember, theres no guarantee they will continue to treat you this way if you return to them.
They might drop the act as soon as they feel like they have you under their thumb again.
They might revert right back to the monster they were when you used to date.
You deserve someone who appreciates your worth from the start, someone who makes you feel valued and adored.
But theres nothing wrong with doing what is best for yourself.
Maybe their feelings are crushed now, but what aboutyourfeelings all those days when they treated you like crap?
They didnt care about how you were feeling, so why should you care about them?
it’s crucial that you focus on yourself.
you better ignore their sob stories and do what is best for yourself.
Their emotions are not your responsibility.
Dont let anyone guilt trip you into taking them back.
They know exactly what theyre doing.
Theyre trying to take advantage of the fact that you have such a soft heart.
Theyre trying to make you as miserable without them as they are without you.
But you made the best decision for yourself, so you should be proud of yourself.
Stick to your choice.
You deserve to be treated better.
You deserve to find brand new love that would never let you down.
