You should feel comfortable with them.
You should trust that theyre going to be there for you through thick and thin.
You belong with someone consistent, someone who is able to handle a little heat.
Derick Santos
After all, relationships are never going to be happy one hundred percent of the time.
There are going to be disagreements.
There is going to be room for improvement.
You need a partner who is ready and willing to work alongside you to make the relationship stronger.
They need to be up for the challenge.
You shouldnt have to convince your person why youre worth their while.
You shouldnt have to beg them to stay or beg them for any key in of attention.
The relationship is never going to last unless youre bothall in.
you should probably be willing to put effort into the relationship.
Dont settle for someone who makes you feel like youre one wrong move away from being single again.
In a healthy relationship, you feel like it’s possible for you to tell each other anything.
You feel safe with them because you know they arent going anywhere.
If they are always one minor inconvenience away from leaving, then let them leave.
Dont let them hold their reluctance over you.
Dont let them use it as a manipulation tool.
Talking to them shouldnt feel like pulling teeth.
It shouldnt feel like youre the only one trying.
You deserve someone who gives you every little piece of their heart.
Someone who speaks open and honestly without you needing to ask.
Someone who is willing to put effort into the relationship because youre worth it to them.
Remember, you cant be the only one who keeps the relationship alive.
It doesnt matter how much energy you put into loving them if they arent going to return the favor.
You both need to be on the same page.
You both need to be putting effort into making the relationship work.
If they always have one foot out the door, then they arent present enough to make you happy.
They arent giving you the love that you deserve.
