Dont settle if you feel like youre the only one who always compromises to keep a relationship.
But it does happen.
Ive seen it with my own eyes.
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Ive seen it with my neighbors, with my friends, with my relatives.
Finding The One is definitely possible, and it happens every single day.
I cant guarantee when it will happen to me or you.
But I can tell you not to settle, especially when youre simply tired of dating or being alone.
It is definitely better than being in a miserable or an almost relationship.
Dont settle if the idea of being with them doesnt make you happy… like, truly happy.
Dont settle for a smooth-talker who promises you dreamy ideas but hasnt proven any with action.
Dont settle if you have to play games every single day to keep them around.
Dont settle if all you have is adrenaline from chasing and guesswork.
Dont settle if you cant be 100% yourself around them.
Dont settle if you feel like youre the only one who is trying to make it work.
Dont settle with anyone who doesnt pursue you.
Dont settle if you always come up with an excuse for their behavior, or lack thereof.
Dont settle if every time you think of them it makes you cry more often than smile.
Dont settle if youre the one who always makes the plan to be together.
Dont settle with someone who doesnt make you feel important.
Dont settle with someone if it doesnt feel right.
Dont settle if youre the one who always texts or calls first.
Dont settle if they dont ask questions or show effort to get to know you better.
Dont settle if your core values are very much different from theirs.
Dont settle with someone who makes you doubt your good intentions.
Dont settle with someone who doesnt value you for being your authentic you.
Dont settle until you find someone who doesnt make you feel like youre too much or not enough.
I get it, nobody really wants to be alone.
Nobody wants to feel like theyre the last one left behind.
Everyone wants someone who gets them.
Im still hopeful that there is someone for everyone.
It might not happen at the timeline that we want it to happen, but it will.
But we cant force it.
Love and healthy relationship cant be forced.
The only thing in your power is to be your best self.
You should learn to embrace your strengths and your flaws and build a life you enjoy.
The right person will not make you happy.
Dont buy into that illusion.
They will make you happier.
So, get out there and pursue your dreams.
Live your life to the fullest every day and enjoy your single life.
Dont stress out about finding a relationship.
But be ready for it when the right person finally finds you.
Dont be sad if you dont meet them tomorrow, next month or even next year.
You should think of each day as another day closer for you to finally meet them.
Life is full of surprises.
